##### 🔑 Presence does not bypass Protectors [[🔑 Protectors are dedicated to maintaining their idea of safety, balance and homeostasis]], and their loyalty and dedication to their jobs is to be respected and honored. If one [[💡 Parts|Part]] insists we not to talk to another, or if we notice a [[💡 Trailheads|thought, emotion, or body sensation]] that seems to be saying "no," honor that part. [[🔑 If bypassed, protectors can and often will retaliate]], so if you notice a [[💡 Parts|Part]] speak up, whether that’s through a thought, emotion, of somatic sensation, turn to them, starting with [[F4 — Feel Toward]] and get to know them. If they relax, check in again. If no one speaks up, it's safe to continue. Other [[💡 Parts|Part]] may find this frustrating early on, but [[🔑 The time we spend with our Protectors is just as valuable as the time we spend with our Exiles]]. ###### See Also - [[🔑 Protectors often doubt that things can get better]]