🔼: ###### 🔑 Shame can deter, but not motivate We sometimes expect shame to motivate us into changing, but what happens when a child is [[💡 Shame|shamed]] for asking questions or giving the wrong answer at school? A [[💡 Reactive Protectors|Reactive Protector]] shuts them down and [[💡 Exiles|Exiles]] the parts who have such enthusiasm for learning. They stop asking questions – they stop growing. [^1]: